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Feel like you're stuck in the same cycle? It's time to understand why. Real change happens when you truly understand yourself, and your mind and heart connect as one.

Your Life Holds the Answers

I found this poem when life was hard. And wow! The words hit me right in my heart. Even today, they still do.

The Poem That Changed My Life

I walk down another street.

Chapter Five

I walk down the same street.
     There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
     I walk around it.

Chapter Four

I walk down the same street.
     There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
     I see it there.
     I still fall in ... it's a habit ... but,
          my eyes are open.
          I know where I am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.

Chapter Three

I walk down the same street.
     There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
     I pretend I don't see it.
     I fall in again.
I can't believe I am in the same place.
          But, it isn't my fault.
It still takes a long time to get out.

Chapter Two

I walk down the street.
     There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
     I fall in.
     I am lost ... I am helpless.
          It isn't my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.

Chapter One

I think you know the feeling of falling into the same holes again and again. (I’ve felt that way too!) But the good news is: you can choose to do things differently.

If you're tired of repeating the same story, I'm here to help. Together, we can get you back to feeling like YOU again. The real you. The one who knows what they want and goes after it.

Hi! I'm Lauren Kim, and I understand your journey.

In early 2020, everything changed. My sister told me our company failed. We lost all our money and our close friendship. I had many questions. Then, the pandemic started, and we had to stay home. It was the hardest time of my life.

For ten months, I looked for answers. I read 450 books and wrote in my journal every day. Finally, I allowed myself to feel all the emotions I had kept inside. I asked myself one simple yet profound question: "What is human nature?" The answer changed everything.

I discovered we're all doing our best to survive. Yet my sister and I turned out so differently, despite sharing the same parents and environment. Why? Because our unique life experiences, and the stories we tell ourselves about them, shape who we become. Once I understood this truth, I knew helping others understand their stories was my calling.

Through this journey, I learned to listen to my heart more deeply. I had to follow where it led me.

Meet Your Connection Coach

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From my journey, I created something special: Discovery Mapping.

It's a path to reconnect your head with your heart, your past with your present, and most importantly - you with your core self.

Today, I help women understand their stories and rediscover themselves. Together, we explore how your past experiences shape your present choices, and create a future that feels deeply connected to who you truly are.

I've walked this path of reconnection myself. Now, I'm here to walk it with you.

This Experience Changed Everything

I believe you can understand your story, release what's holding you back, and move forward with peace. This is what I'm here to help you do.

Imagine starting your day feeling calm and sure of yourself. No more doubting your choices. No more feeling stuck.

Just you, living life your way.

Our past experiences shape us more than we realise and can make us repeat the same patterns. But we have the power to change that.

Let me share a bit about me:

A New Way Forward

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I jumped out of a plane from 30,000 feet (even though heights scare me!)

02

My husband and I lived in a campervan in New Zealand for 240 days

03

My favourite words to live by: "Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response."

04

Every morning, you'll find me walking and thinking in the Botanic Garden

05

I love learning from great teachers like Jesus and Buddha. While I'm not religious, their wisdom helps me see life differently

Your new beginning starts now. Let’s work together to change the patterns that limit you and create a joyful life.

Are You Ready to Rewrite Your Story?

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